Monday, August 30, 2010
Chapter 11: Created for Blessing
So how can you be a blessing to someone else? There are lots of ways. Praying for someone is a great way to be a blessing. Our prayers can be powerful and effective, and by praying, we can see circumstances change. Becoming a mentor is a great way to be a blessing. You can bless someone else with your presence, your time, your ability and your talents and instruct someone as you show the love of Christ to someone who desires a mentor. Looking for ways to show kindness is a way to bless others. It can be as simple as being courteous in a store, in traffic, or in your office. Kindness can also be shown through generosity. Determine to be a generous giver….all the time! Remember that old campfire song….It only takes a spark, to get a fire going….. Kindness and blessing act the same way. What you start can soon spread. So what you were created for, is what you get to share with your world.
So true- Statement
We are created for blessing. I talked earlier in this book about how hard it is sometimes as Christians to think about wanting success. There is nothing wrong with wanting God’s blessing or His grace. The fine line we must walk, however, is when we expect those blessings yet we are unwilling or unaware of the opportunities we have to be a blessing to others. Page 192
Highlight Scripture
Genesis 12:2 I will make you into a great nation and I will bless you; I will make your name great and you will be a blessing. (NIV)
Discussion Questions – Homework!
1. Do a random act of kindness to someone close to you. If you’re married, or have kids, do it right at home. See what happens.
2. Have you ever thought about being a mentor? With school starting, you can do it in simple ways. Being a helper in your child’s classroom, volunteering in Children’s Church, or teaching a kids class, are all ways you can give of yourself to someone younger.
3. How is your prayer life? Do you have a list of people you are praying for? How about those needing to be saved. If you haven’t made it a part of your day, include prayer for others daily.
4. How has God blessed you? Sometimes just writing them down make us realize how much we have to be thankful for. Make a list of blessing today.
5. Why not memorize Psalms 5:12 which says in the NIV, O Lord, you bless the righteous and surround them with your favor. Then remember that you are the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus, II Cor 5:17! How awesome is that that God blessed you and surrounds you with favor!
Knit Together Challenge
This week’s challenge is to ask yourself, how can I be a blessing to someone else today, for 7 days in a row.
My Prayer for you:
Father, In Jesus Name we thank you for all the blessings you have given us. We are so blessed to know and love you. Our desire God is to live a life that is not only for ourselves, but as an offering to you to bless others. Thank you for giving us opportunities, and placing a desire in our heart to help, minister and bless others. Help us to take every opportunity that you present to us, and make us a blessing today. In Jesus Name, AMEN!
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
So how can you be a blessing to someone else? There are lots of ways. Praying for someone is a great way to be a blessing. Our prayers can be powerful and effective, and by praying, we can see circumstances change. Becoming a mentor is a great way to be a blessing. You can bless someone else with your presence, your time, your ability and your talents and instruct someone as you show the love of Christ to someone who desires a mentor. Looking for ways to show kindness is a way to bless others. It can be as simple as being courteous in a store, in traffic, or in your office. Kindness can also be shown through generosity. Determine to be a generous giver….all the time! Remember that old campfire song….It only takes a spark, to get a fire going….. Kindness and blessing act the same way. What you start can soon spread. So what you were created for, is what you get to share with your world.
So true- Statement
We are created for blessing. I talked earlier in this book about how hard it is sometimes as Christians to think about wanting success. There is nothing wrong with wanting God’s blessing or His grace. The fine line we must walk, however, is when we expect those blessings yet we are unwilling or unaware of the opportunities we have to be a blessing to others. Page 192
Highlight Scripture
Genesis 12:2 I will make you into a great nation and I will bless you; I will make your name great and you will be a blessing. (NIV)
Discussion Questions – Homework!
1. Do a random act of kindness to someone close to you. If you’re married, or have kids, do it right at home. See what happens.
2. Have you ever thought about being a mentor? With school starting, you can do it in simple ways. Being a helper in your child’s classroom, volunteering in Children’s Church, or teaching a kids class, are all ways you can give of yourself to someone younger.
3. How is your prayer life? Do you have a list of people you are praying for? How about those needing to be saved. If you haven’t made it a part of your day, include prayer for others daily.
4. How has God blessed you? Sometimes just writing them down make us realize how much we have to be thankful for. Make a list of blessing today.
5. Why not memorize Psalms 5:12 which says in the NIV, O Lord, you bless the righteous and surround them with your favor. Then remember that you are the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus, II Cor 5:17! How awesome is that that God blessed you and surrounds you with favor!
Knit Together Challenge
This week’s challenge is to ask yourself, how can I be a blessing to someone else today, for 7 days in a row.
My Prayer for you:
Father, In Jesus Name we thank you for all the blessings you have given us. We are so blessed to know and love you. Our desire God is to live a life that is not only for ourselves, but as an offering to you to bless others. Thank you for giving us opportunities, and placing a desire in our heart to help, minister and bless others. Help us to take every opportunity that you present to us, and make us a blessing today. In Jesus Name, AMEN!
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
chapter 10: Created for Gratitude
If we want a joy filled life, it is a result of being thankful for what we have. Gratitude results when we have learned to be content in life. So contentment is an enormous key to living a joy filled life. Even in the worst of circumstances we can find something to be grateful for. That doesn’t mean that we don’t believe God to change circumstances, but we can enjoy each day as things improve, and be grateful in the moment.
How can we move from being grateful in our heart, to expressing it with our mouth? I do believe many people have hearts that are full of thanksgiving for the people in their life, but they just have a hard time expressing it. I want to encourage you…..say the words. Let your spouse, your kids, your parents, your friends, know you are grateful for them. If you are in a difficult relationship, Philippians encourages us to look for things to be grateful for….if there is anything praise worthy, if there is any virtue, think on these things, and be grateful for the little things!!!
One of the biggest ways to be grateful in our homes is to just quit complaining. Let’s create a peace filled environment through gratitude. Show and tell your appreciation and gratitude at home!
So true- Statement
“Complaining only leads to more complaining. Gratitude leads to goodwill toward others and good feelings about life. It’s the difference between choosing pure, fresh tasting water or sour-tasting acidic vinegar. One restores and resuscitates; the other stings and leaves a bad taste in your mouth.” Page 173
Highlight Scripture
I Thessalonians 5:18 In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.
Discussion Questions – Homework!
1. Why not begin every day with Debbie’s suggestion to write down 5 things that you are thankful for, or even start your own Daily Gratitude Journal.
2. Make your journal a little more specific by making categories like Debbie does. Family, personal, career, spiritual, and simple or ordinary sections or you can choose something to be grateful for daily in each of these categories.
3. Have you ever had a boll weevil moment like the example on page 178? The example showed something that seemed like a terrible problem, that actually turned around to become a great blessing. Explain your situation, and memorize Gen 50:20.
4. We are planning a gratitude tea in November around the theme of this chapter. Can you think of 3-5 women in your life you would invite who you are grateful for? Start your invitation list now!
5. On a scale of 1-10, with one being very little and 10 being the greatest, where you would rate your contentment level. Read Phil 4:12 and Hebrews 13:5. How do those verses speak to you?
Knit Together Challenge
Ponder for a few moments and think about those in your life who you are most grateful for. Does everyone on your list know that you appreciate them? Why not take today to send a text, email or note to at least one of them to appropriately thank them for being in your life.
My Prayer for you
Dear Father, our hearts are filled with gratitude for all you have done for us. Thank you for your love, your compassion and your faithfulness to us. We return our gratitude to you and thank you for sending your Son, for the cross, for your forgiveness, and for your embrace of love around us. Thank you for the Holy Spirit and His marvelous work in our lives. I ask you today to encourage those who read this to come to a new level of appreciation for what a great God you are. Thank you for letting us discover together how important living a life of thanksgiving is to being fulfilled and content. We love and bless you Lord, in Jesus’ Name, AMEN!
Monday, August 9, 2010
chapter 9: Created for Laughter
In our stress filled world, laughter helps ease tension and helps us “de-stress”. Even in the midst of serious situations, a little brevity can lighten the tension. Try it next time you’re in a stressful situation.
Something I heard Bill Cosby say years ago, has stuck with me. He says, if it is gonna be funny later, it may as well be funny now. Take advantage of each moment, and bring laughter to your life. Often in the midst of doing something embarrassing, we can learn to laugh at ourselves right then. What might have been uncomfortable, becomes bearable because we applied laughter to the situation.
One of the most popular long term shows on TV is America’s Funniest Home Videos. People do some crazy things, and others love to see funny situations on video. There are some really silly movies, and lots of good ways to find ways to laugh. We need to learn to laugh at ourselves. Sarah certainly did when she found out she would give birth with an “old man” as a husband. Most 90 year old women would have just died, not laughed! So do some laughing this week. Find a way to add some joy into your life today!
So true- Statement
“Each morning I wake up and I say to myself, self, you have two choices. You can choose to be in a good mood, or you can choose to be in a bad mood. I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from the situation. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life.” Page 169
Highlight Scripture
Proverbs 17:22 A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.
Discussion Questions – Homework!
1. Do a word search in the Bible on the word joy. How many joy “texts” did you find?
2. Describe what you think this Yiddish proverb means. What soap is to the body, laughter is to the soul.
3. When do you find it hardest to laugh?
4. What is your favorite funny, book, movie or song?
Knit Together Challenge
Create your own laughter journal. Especially if you have young kids, you will forget the funny things they say if you don’t write them down. Having a laughter journal is a great way to lift your spirit, because we know laughter is good like medicine, and helps tighten the abs at the same time!
My Prayer for you:
Father, In Jesus Name, we thank you that you created us for joy and laughter. Thank you for the joy we have in salvation, and the river of life that flows through us to bring life and joy to those we come in contact with us. We look joyfully toward our future, and thank you that nothing is impossible with you on our side. We thank you that our life in You is fulfilling and full of joy, and that we have heaven to look forward to. In Jesus Name, AMEN!
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
chapter 8: Created for Work
I love hearing people talk about their jobs with such pleasure that they feel like work is play. I really believe that we should do what we love and love what we do. I hope that is true for you.
I was once again challenged by Debbie’s words about setting goals. Goal setting is such a valuable life skill. It helps to set spiritual goals, family goals, physical goals, career goals, recreational goals, and financial goals. I think it would be a great exercise to take page 132-133 and place your goals on paper. (I’ve made it your Knit Together Challenge) I have come to see more and more that if we don’t give ourselves something to shoot for, we will never come close to actualizing our potential. We should not be afraid of goals. Often it is because we don’t want to be disappointed. I think Debbie hit the nail on the head that many of us don’t think we deserve success. In my case, I’ve just considered that what I write is for God and His people,and if I don’t get reimbursed for it financially, at least my reward is in heaven…..but I’m changing my tune. I’m getting inspired to get a lot of what I already have done published. I’m renewing my goal list and making it realistic, but also making it something to stretch toward.
Time savers that are mentioned in this chapter are wonderful. I really like her magazine ideas, and her last tip about making sure you give your goals to a trusted friend to keep you accountable. Great IDEA!
I think we should all learn how to delegate or perhaps for some of you how to delegate even better. There are things that others can do for you. (I’m preaching to myself here!!!!) Think of people in your life who have expertise in the area you need help. Paying for their service can free you up to reach your goals.
So true- Statement
“Goals give us somewhere to set our sights. Goals are like target practice-we get ready, we aim for what we want, and we fire away! Goals are not just the destination we’re driving toward, they’re also the painted white lines that keep us on the road!” page 137
Highlight Scripture
I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus. Phil 3:14 (NIV)
Discussion Questions – Homework!
1. Review your goal list from chapter 1. Did you dream big enough? Are you being encouraged to dream big and achieve big? What is your step number 1. Why not make it happen this week?
2. Sit down and write out your schedule. What is erasable and what is combinable. Make sure you don’t allow time wasters to whittle away at your valuable and most precious commodity….time.
3. What is your biggest time saver tip….If you were at our ladies conference the last weekend in April, you heard Wendy Treat’s tip about steamer bags. Do you have one you want to share?
4. How do you react when you miss a goal? Did this chapter help you see that there could be a positive view of maybe reassessing your goal to begin with?
5. Get rid of time wasters. Write down
Knit Together Challenge
Why not use the sample worksheet on page 132 and 133 as your challenge this week. Make the beginning of the school year, and then reassess them and rewrite them the same time next year.
My Prayer for you
Father, we come to you in Jesus name, thanking you for obtaining the best prize ever for us, complete salvation. As we look to Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, we can press on to obtain the prize that you have for us.
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
Chapter 7: Created for the Word
One of my passions in life is getting others to fall in love with reading the Word of God. Along with knowing and loving God, I always want to know Him better, and I can do that as I study, read and meditate on His Word. In God’s Word we see the character of Jesus, and learn not only what Jesus would do, but why He did what He did. I know that reading God’s Word has been a lifeline for me, and it is the way for us to have a closer relationship with God. If I really am His sheep, I really want to know His voice. He speaks to me through His Word. He wants to speak to you through His Word too. His Word is a lamp to our feet and a light to our path. (Ps 119:105) If we want to know where to place our next step, we need to use the illumination of God’s Word. His Word directs us to His will for us.
The words in the Word are just ink on pages unless they become rhema to us. The word rhema means freshly spoken. The Word becomes rhema to us when it is fresh revelation in our life. Because God’s word is living and active, the Word comes alive to us as we read, meditate and study it. The Word is our blueprint for life. Don’t build without it.
The Word is our source for truth. In a world where truth changes constantly, it is great to have a foundation that is ROCK SOLID. Our lives become firmly established with consistent time with the Word made flesh. Even when storms come, we will not be shaken.
It does take discipline to study the Word. But as Christians, we are disciples, which means disciplined ones. So as a daily discipline we get to savor the Word, like a delicious meal. Disciples talk to their master….we get to as well as we spend time talking to the author of the Word. Most of all we get to ingest it, and make it a part of who we are. As we believe what we read, and put it into practice, and become a doer of the Word, (James 1:22) we will gain a greater appreciation for God’s love letter to us.
So true- Statement
“If you are in need of a heart cleanup, the best place to start is with the Word. Take the time you need to spend with God each day. Study His Word and memorize it so you can take it with you wherever you go. Savor His love for you and remember that you are indeed created for the Word. It is our only true road map that will show us where to go next.” (page 133)
Highlight Scripture
· Hebrews 4:12- For the word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow.
Discussion Questions – Homework!
1. How much priority do you give to God’s Word? Is your Bible open in church on Sunday and closed the rest of the week? Did this chapter make you realize that you were created for the Word? I hope you were challenged to make your life revolve around God’s love letter to you. Why not write a “love note” back to God thanking Him for sending you a love letter.
2. How do these words apply to the Bible? Provocative, relevant, creative, honest. Think of a scripture or passage that is an example of each of these words.
3. What is your favorite version of the Bible? Mix up what translation or paraphrase you read from and try another. If you want to read through the Bible quickly, or just want to get a quick overview, purchase a Children’s Bible for elementary kids, and use it in your devotional time.
(If you don’t own a Message Bible, I know you’d enjoy it. Costco even has them)
4. How can you apply Martin Luther’s approach for reading and studying the Word on page 127.
5. I like to think of reading God’s Word as my daily bread for healthy living. It’s not just a survival manual for emergencies. To live a healthy balanced life, and live the abundant life that God has for us, the Word is vital to us and one reason why consistent Bible Study is so important. Study it on your own, with friends, with your spouse, even your kids. Find a way to dig deeper and be prepared live life from the overflow!
Knit Together Challenge
Reserve is a word that shows we have placed a priority on something. We make reservations at a restaurant, or a hotel, in advance. Why not reserve some time for you and God in advance, and keep your reservation. Whether you are an early bird like Debbie and I am, or you thrive in the evening hours, make your appointment with God and keep it. In a few short weeks of doing it day after day, it will become a habit, and then you’ll create a lifestyle of reading, studying, and meditating on the Word of God.
My Prayer for you:
Father, we thank you for your Word. We know that each word in the Bible is God breathed and good for us. We appreciate the men wrote it, and appreciate that you gave us something we can hold on to and can read and study to know you more. We are created for your pleasure and purpose, and thank you for creating the Word for our pleasure and so we can know our purpose. In Jesus’ Name, Amen!
Monday, July 12, 2010
Chapter 6:Created for Relationships
Connections are very important for believers. Who we connect with really can help determine our destiny. So as an encourager myself, I encourage you to seek out encouragers in your life! Be an encourager to someone else, but make sure you have people in your life who encourage you. The Bible even tells us there are times when we just have to encourage or stir ourselves up. That works too, but it really is vital to surround yourself with people who are positive and want you to not only survive, but to thrive and then flourish!
When it comes to the marriage relationship, take Debbie’s pastor’s advice and remember that the greenest grass is the grass that is watered. Encouragement feels like water on thirsty ground. Be generous with it in your marriage! Be an encourager when you feel like it, and when you don’t! “Marriage requires loving when you don’t feel like loving, talking when we don’t have anything to say and listening when all we want to do is get our own word in.” (Page 111) For any of you who are struggling in your marriage, I hope you were encouraged by Debbie’s testimony. God is the God of the turnaround, and turnaround is possible if we are willing to keep on trying, and to keep on growing and changing into the image of Jesus!
I hope you were inspired by the Breakfast Club. We have to be ones who develop a support system around us. Interestingly enough, those without support systems have greatly increased rates of suicide, drug and alcohol use, and depression. So build a strong system of support around you. Then find ways to celebrate together. Find time on a regular basis to meet together. Be there for each other through the positives and negatives of life. Be committed to one another, and grow together. You need a sounding board, and a sisterhood around you. Why not start your own Breakfast club, or coffee club, book club, or whatever club! Let someone be a support to you, and you be a support to someone else.
The Turkish proverb at the beginning of the chapter is what I will end with. “No road is long with good company.” God has designed relationships so that we don’t have to feel alone. God even puts the lonely in families as it says in Psalms 68:6. We all say that life is short, but it can be really long and lonely if you don’t surround yourself with dynamic relationships. Make time and space in your life to develop positive, healthy, lasting relationships, because that is what you were created for!
So true- Statement
“When you expect the very best in people, you will find the very best. It is so important to surround ourselves with positive people. If we are friends with people who dream big and believe in themselves, it will raise the level of our own thinking.” Page 106
Highlight Scripture
Matt 18:20 Where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them. (NIV)
Discussion Questions – Homework!
1. How about making your own list of thirty people you want to meet. Then do the second list that Debbie suggests, the one about the people God wants you to meet. You probably have already made some of those divine relationships on that list.
2. Who do you have to share your successes with? Remember the importance of knowing who you can or should share your promotion, good news or blessings with.
3. I know I suggested it earlier, but really make this your homework. Make your own support group! Find a way to meet regularly with a group of ladies you can build into, and have them do the same for you.
4. One thing I believe is so important is to always be learning from someone and then teaching someone else. I’ve called it having one hand up to learn, and one hand out to teach. Who are those people in your life? If you don’t have them, make a commitment to begin building those relationships this summer.
Knit Together Challenge
Why not plan this week to contact and connect with one or two of the people on your own God’s List of Thirty. Those relationships that you know are God ordained are too valuable to overlook or disregard. Why not pick up the phone, send a note, or even send an email and thank them for being a God friend in your life.
My Prayer for you:
Dear Father, we come to you in Jesus’ Name, thanking you for the relationship we have with You. I’m thankful that Your desire was that we have a relationship with You, and that You were committed to us, even before we chose to follow and serve You. Thank You for the relationships you have put in our lives. Help me be a blessing to the people who You have placed in my sphere of influence. Most of all I thank You that You are always with us, and we never have to fear, because You will never leave us. We love You with all of our heart, soul, mind and strength. In Jesus’ Name, AMEN!
Tuesday, July 6, 2010
Chapter 5 - Created for Balance
For family balance, find time for fun in your family. Make some special memories and traditions that continue year after year. Summertime is a great time to do just that. Do something fun this week!
For work life, learn to balance your professional life and your personal life. There should be an ending to your work day. Cell phones and email make it easy for us to deal with work issues while we should be spending family time. Draw some lines and make some boundaries that will bring balance to your life.
For your marriage, remember to value and cherish your mate. Visit together regularly. Find time to communicate and connect daily. Make time for just the two of you to enjoy intimacy and romance.
For your physical body, remember that the person who is responsible for taking care of you is YOU! You have to be breathing to help someone else! Don’t allow yourself to be stretched so thin or so become so worn out that when one extra thing gets added to your life if throws you off kilter. So get sleep, eat healthy, exercise, and take time for you.
For your spirit, keep being refilled, so you can live out of the overflow. An empty dry cup doesn’t give life to us, or to anyone else. When I need a recharge, I get out one of my favorite worship CD’s and just worship God through singing, praising and praying. Then I begin to build myself up and stir up the gifts that are inside. You can do the same!
So true- Statement
“I’m not saying we need to say no to everything, but we should say no to those things that aren’t benefiting us or don’t match up to our values or priorities.” (page 87) “Saying no to something that doesn’t match up to your priorities is saying yes to something else that does.” (page 88)
Highlight Scripture
Matt 11:28-30 Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me…For m yoke is easy and my burden is light (NIV)
Discussion Questions – Homework!
- On Page 89, Debbie talks about a woman with a wheelbarrow. How did that illustration help you determine the difference between what God requires of us, and what we put on ourselves?
- I heard someone once comment on verse in Phil 4:13, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” They said, just not all at once! I know juggling husbands, kids, home life, your own body and your spirit can be overwhelming. How can you approach each season of life with balance? Is there any one thing you noticed that is out of balance that you will change immediately so you can live a more balanced life?
- Of the four table legs Debbie talks about on page 91, which table leg in your life is the strongest? Which one is the weakest?
- We are all guilty of feeling guilty at times. What area of life do you carry the most guilt? How can you begin to rid your life of guilt and live guilt free? (Remember this – there is therefore now NO CONDEMNATION to those who are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the spirit!- Romans 8:1)
- As Spirit-filled believers, we have the added bonus of listening to the voice of the Lord, and getting specific direction from Him. This week, after strategizing how to have more balance in your life, ask the Spirit of God to reveal to you areas that need tweeking or adjustment. You are His sheep, and you know His voice! Choose to be obedient!
Knit Together Challenge
Because many of you have families and children at home, my challenge to you this week is to have some unexpected family fun. I did that today. I took my 2 daughters who live at home on a day hike near Sun Valley. We left at 10 and were back at 3, but had a delightful time, got some exercise had a picnic, and saw some beautiful scenery. What a great unexpected (and inexpensive) way to spend a day off. So plan something fun, and go for it. It will add value to your life, and make a great memory in the process.
My Prayer for you:
Father, I thank you for helping us live a life of balance. We love that you care for each area of our life. Thank you for helping us become more sensitive to your Spirit so that when we need to adjust in some area, we can be obedient easily and quickly. Thank you for your life that flows within us to bring life to others. Help us keep our priorities in balance, so that we can flourish in life. In Jesus’ Name, AMEN!
Monday, June 28, 2010
Chapter 5: Created for Success
If you desire to successfully reach the dream in your heart, make sure you remember the 4 things a successful woman does: she trusts herself, accepts responsibility for herself, invests in herself, and she thinks about success. I am impressed and challenged by Debbie’s organized method of goal setting. I encourage you to follow her SMART plan (pages 71-72) and then incorporate her ABCDE system for prioritizing your own tasks (pages72-73) Obviously, successful women plan! We may as well learn from someone who has put it into practice and has the success to back it up!
I love Debbie’s encouragement to be positive about life. There are enough Eeyore’s to go around. Why not be a Tigger?? Show some excitement, be passionate about life and live life abundantly with some bounce in your tail! Debbie’s personal formula for success is simple but profound: BE proud of who you are, BE persistent, BE bold, BE grateful, and Be yourself. If “yourself” needs an attitude makeover, choose to live life positively!
In conclusion, never think of success as a dirty word. It is God’s desire above all else that we prosper (have success) and be in health, even as our soul prospers. (III John 2). So let’s have a prosperous soul, and see God’s idea of success come to pass in our lives!
So true- Statement
“Stay positive and surround yourself with upbeat, constructive people. Enthusiasm and ambition are contagious. Positive people condition us for success the same way positive thinking moves us forward to reach our goals.” (page 77)
Highlight Scripture:
Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and your plans will succeed Prov 16:3 (NIV)
Discussion Questions – Homework!
1. How do you describe success?
2. Have you considered making a mission statement for your life? I love the verse Debbie chose as her mission statement in Gen 12:2, that God will make her a blessing. Our Ladies Ministry mission statement is Col 1:10 that we might walk worthy of the Lord, pleasing Him, being fruitful in every good work, and increasing in the knowledge of God. As Ladies of Grace, we want to walk strong, please God, be fruitful and know God more intimately every day. Do you have a life verse? If not, find a verse for your life this week!
3. Debbie says the key to success is to start with the basics. How can you implement either her SMART plan or the ABCDE task priority plan into your life?
4. Name at least 3 E’s you can eliminate. Then make a commitment to DO IT! Say not the good, so you can say yes to the best!
5. As a woman thinks in her heart, so is she! (Prov 23:7) Yes it is in the Bible, and to be a successful woman takes thinking successful thoughts. (page 76) Is that a thought bump for you? If it is, how can you confidently begin thinking and believing that God wants, desires and even longs for you to succeed?
Knit Together Challenge:
Do you know someone who has had a recent success? Why not help them celebrate. Find a way to rejoice with those who rejoice. Tell and show them how proud you are of what they have accomplished! Celebrate their success with them. (This could be a hard one, especially if you have a tendency to measure yourself up against others. Celebrate anyway!)
My Prayer for you:
Father, in Jesus Name, I thank you for the wonderful women who are joining me on this blog study. I thank you Lord, that your desire is for success for each one of them, and You are helping them see that it is possible to reach their dreams, despite any obstacles they must overcome. I ask you Lord to help each of us realize that you have blessed us to be a blessing, and that is ultimate success in life. Give us courage to live passionately and positively. In Jesus’ Name, AMEN.
Monday, June 21, 2010
Chapter 3: Created for Risk
It is easy to settle for much less than God has for us. God wants us to experience life to the full. Abundant life – the kind that is abundantly above all we could ever ask or think. So often we settle for good, when God wants us to experience great! I love this quote I heard long ago from who knows where, “Say no to the good, so you can say yes to the best.” Sometimes we get so caught up doing lots of good things, that we miss the great thing(s) that God has for us. Life is all about perspective and balance. Let’s quit wasting time on unnecessary things that keep us out of balance, and get God’s perspective for our life.
So have you decided to be a risk taker? Why not give risk a different title! I love this thought! Instead of terrifying, try challenging… instead of foreign, try intriguing… instead of a problem, try potential to grow. Instead of looking at things from a negative perspective, turn it around to the positive. It is a great way to encourage yourself and remember that God is always with you and He believes in you! His promises are yes to you. You may need to encourage yourself on a regular basis (hourly if necessary!), and you can do that by encouraging and building yourself up in God’s Word.
Overcome fear, and believe in yourself. Fear can stop you in your tracks. It can produce pain and even paralyze you. (Think of childbirth or public speaking!) Fear has all the same properties as faith, except it is going in the opposite (negative) direction. Turn your fear to faith, and overcome any negative self doubts, and live fear-less. You can live confidently! So as we reach the end of Chapter 3 remember: Play your song! Sing your song! Write your song! Live your song! It is risky, but worth every bit of the risk!
So true- Statement – “Sure there are those who get lucky-people whose success falls right into their laps. But I would say there is something important about learning to work for what you dream. It teaches persistence, endurance, and the value of determination in the face of obstacles.” Debbie Macomber
Highlight Scripture- John 10:10 I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.
Discussion Questions – Homework!
1. What is the greatest risk you associate with pursuing your dream?
2. How can you systematically work through that risk to reach the reward?
3. The three thoughts on page 51 from the Power of Positive Thinking are great keys to getting out of a negative rut, and living positively and victoriously. Why not copy it (I believe I am divinely guided, I believe I will always take the right turn in the road, I believe God will make a way where there is no way- by Norman Vincent Peale) or even the Optimist’s Creed and put in on your mirror to read them out loud as you get ready each morning. What is the advantage to speaking words like these out loud?
4. What are the negative words that you say about yourself that you know you need to change? What positive words can you say in exchange?
5. Setting goals is an important factor in reaching our potential. How can you make your goals more attainable? Why not list 3-5 of them and put them in your Bible to reread daily.
Knit Together Challenge: Think generationally when it comes to believing in yourself. Your kids (or others you influence) will believe in pursuing their dream when they see confidence, endurance and persistence in you. They will be much more willing to take risks and overcome fear when they see how you have done it.
My Prayer for you:
Father, I come to you in the name of Jesus and ask that you help us to walk stronger in you. We desire to live confidently and fearlessly and truly enjoy this adventurous journey of life. I pray that in You we would know that taking risks to pursue the dream you have placed in our heart is worth the effort. Give us the courage to get up when we fall, and the perseverance to keep going when the going seems tough. I pray that we could live joyfully knowing that your Word is at work within us, helping us accomplish Your will in our life. In Jesus’ Name, AMEN!
Tuesday, June 15, 2010
Chapter 2: Created for Dreams
I love the questions Debbie McComber tells us to ask on page 26. When we think about our dream, if we are determined to get to our destination we should ask these tough questions. Those 7 questions really give you a good idea of what it will take to achieve your dream. After that kind of honest assessment, we can count the cost and really begin going after the dream that is in our heart.
I think it is encouraging to know that others have had big obstacles to overcome and have made it to their dream. (Golda Meir, Gerorge Bernard Shaw and Benjamin Franklin were her examples of 3 who didn’t let their age deter them from destiny.) Obviously we know that there are lots of people who go to their grave without accomplishing their dreams. Let that not be us!
Can you imagine the failure Debbie felt when the editor told her not to revise her manuscript, but to just throw it away. I love how God was there to comfort her, and encourage her, even with the enemies echo still in her ear in the quiet of the night. She opened her Bible and came to the scripture in John 14 and read the entire chapter. The first verse said, let not your heart be troubled, and the last verse said Arise, and let us go from here. So she did just exactly that, and kept on persevering.
Isn’t it odd that as women, we so easily believe the lie, instead of the truth? It is time to do just the opposite. When we know the truth and believe the truth, truly we can live free. When we are free in Christ, truly no limitations can hold us back. No negativity can hold us down. No lie from the enemy will ever keep us in bondage again. We are free!
We can see God move in for us and change the absolutely NO, to absolutely no problem! Limitations, boundaries, and ceilings will crumble. So keep on dreaming. That’s what we were created for!
So true- Statement – “God wants the best for you -not the average and not the mundane. He wants your future to be full; he wants your gifts to be used! He wants to see you prosper and flourish as you use the skills and talents and gifts He has given you.” (bottom of page 29, and top of page 30)
Highlight Scripture - John 8:32 You shall know the truth and the truth will set you free.
Discussion Questions – Your Homework!
- What is your biggest dream of your life? Have you said it out loud? Why not do it now, and then tell someone else?
- What limitations or invisible barriers have kept your from soaring toward your dream?
- How can you use the Word of God to tell the difference between the truth and the lies the enemy whispers?
- What reminder can you give yourself to stop talking when you begin to speak negative words over your life?
- So what is stopping you from going for your dreams? Now that you know that it is not just who you know, that you’re not too old, and that it isn’t too hard, why not go for it! Go after your dream. I know you can do it! What action can you take today?
Knit Together Challenge: Look around at people in your life, and ask yourself this: How can I help motivate or encourage my friend, family member or loved one not to give up on their dreams? If you are a mom, be a good example to your kids through your words and actions that the dreams they have can come to pass too!
My Prayer for you: Dear Father, in the name of Jesus, I thank you that you have given us dreams and visions for our life, and that they can come to pass. I pray that we would have courage to make today the day that we believe that all things are possible. I thank you that your Word says we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us. I believe that our faith will be made into sight as we continue to trust you. Thank you for reminding us that because we know you, we have the most important connection we will ever need. We believe we are not too old and it is not too hard, because You live big on the inside of us. Thank you for your tender love for your children. In Jesus Name, AMEN!
Tuesday, June 8, 2010
Chapter 1: Created for Purpose
I enjoy how Debbie introduces herself in this chapter. She has a way of making you feel like you know her personally, because she seems to be so much like us in so many ways. She began to see her need to fulfill her own purpose when she already was a wife and a mom, leading an average life. She longed to figure out her purpose and reach that seemingly unreachable dream of becoming a writer. During this time, she found Christ, and was introduced to a ladies Bible study where she grew to love the Word of God. She began to grow in faith. I believe that where she started is the best starting point for finding our purpose. When we begin to know who we are in Christ, we want to make our life count for the kingdom. We find out who we are in Christ as we read and study the Word, and consistent Bible Study is a great catalyst for that. Through her cousin’s death, she received the revelation that she could no longer just dream about fulfilling her purpose of being a writer someday. She had to be one now. I hope that same kind of passion is rising on the inside of you….no more waiting, do it now!
I love the analogy of purpose being our suitcase, passion being our carry-on, and patience being our garment bag. Since we are on a journey, let’s determine to enjoy it. You are where you are at this moment. Where you want to be may seem totally out of reach. If we want to make it to our destination, we have to put one foot in front of the other, and begin where we are. One of my friends says this: start where you are, it’s your only choice! If our dreams are always tomorrow, we will never go anywhere. If we are dependent on everything being perfect to begin, it will never happen! If we aren’t convinced that fulfilling our purpose is not optional, but God’s mandate for our life, we will flounder and live mediocre lives, dying with a long list of regrets. I don’t know about you, but for me that is not an option! Let’s learn to make the most of now. This moment in your life can be the first step toward your destiny!
Oliver Wendell Holme’s statement… that “most of us go to our graves with our music still inside us”, was a light bulb moment for me. For those of you who know me personally, you can probably know that worshipping God is my passion. I love writing songs, singing and playing for the Lord. I have written hundreds of songs and poems that could be set to music, and all of them are hidden in my heart or hidden in my file cabinet. So I am telling you all, and God that I get the hint….no lightning bolt needed! I will let the music out. I encourage you to do the same. Find your music….whatever it may be, and sing your song!
SO TRUE- Statement- page 3, 2nd half of first paragraph…. “We were designed for something special. I believe that something special is reflected in the strong desires God puts in our hearts through our dreams, our passions, and through the things that bring us joy.”
Highlight Scripture: Galatians 6:1, 4-5 (The Message) Live creatively friends… Make a careful exploration of who you are and the work you have been given, and sink yourself into that. Don’t be impressed with yourself. Don’t compare yourself with others. Each of you must take responsibility for doing the creative best you can with your own life.
Discussion Questions – (Your Homework!) You can do this on your own and respond to in the comment section of the blog if you desire.
- What is it that gets you excited? What do you love to do? What are you passionate about?
- Did you try the experiment on page 14? What are your P-words and S-words?
- Write down 5 goals that seem totally out of reach. Seal them in an envelope for later.
- What can you do, at this moment, as a first step toward fulfilling your purpose?
- Have you had a light bulb moment in regard to purpose? What was it and how did it affect you?
My Prayer for you: Dear Father, I come to you in Jesus name, thanking you for sending Jesus to fulfill his purpose on the earth, so that we can know you. I thank you that we are created for purpose and that you place talents, abilities, and gifts in us so that we can passionately live out our purpose on the earth and promote and impact the Kingdom of God. I ask you to bless each one who reads this with favor and blessing as they follow after You and find their purpose in You. In Jesus’ name, AMEN
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
Introduction Week
If you know me, you know how much I love to read. I really enjoy books that challenge me to grow in different areas. I was given the book we are using as a resource, Knit Together, by Debbie Macomber, as a Christmas present, and really didn’t get a chance to read it until Easter or this year. When I did, I thought it had some great life lessons that really are basics of Christianity. They are good foundational thoughts that one can build their life on. Because summertime is sometimes unstructured, having regular Bible Studies in one place at one time becomes difficult. So, because we know the importance of studying the Word, even during vacation time, here we are, doing this fun experiment.
The author, Debbie Macomber, seems like the kind of lady you would want in your friendship circle. She is a motivator, who presents practical steps to making your dreams a reality. She keeps your feet to the fire, and continually reminds us that God has given us gifts, abilities and tools, but it is up to us to do something with them. She has experienced the joy and reward of diligence and perseverance, and realizes that becoming successful at anything takes work. If you apply the principles of her book, you will have no excuse to become all that God has for you! So get prepared for an adventure in finding out how we can be knit together in the body, to effectively accomplish something great for the kingdom of God.
Next week we will start with Chapter 1. If you are like me, you will probably read the whole book at once, and then start again and go chapter by chapter. That works! Get a good overview if you want, and then we will go through the chapters with a fine tooth comb. There will be some Discussion Questions and a Highlight Verse to memorize or meditate on for the week. I will highlight my SO TRUE statement from the chapter we are discussing, each week. I’ll also include a Knit Together Challenge and My Prayer for You at the close of each week. You are invited to comment and give feedback on any and all, from my comments on the chapter to your answers to the questions, to any revelation you may have received each week. I’ll have some of my awesome Bible Study leaders help each week to give their feedback as well. So let’s go for it…..and be knit together on in the internet! Are we high tech or what!!!
P.S. Someone told me you can purchase the book very inexpensively at barnesandnoblebooks.com. Used hardback and paperbacks start at $1.99. You could buy one for yourself, and some friends too!
